Bottoms Up!

The workshop we wish had existed when we were new subs…

I’m very excited to team up with my sister in crime; the one who’s been by my side through everything kink related since we met at a munch and started our journeys some six years ago: Shirin!

Together we’ve created a 3 part event series for powerplayers: One for subs/bottoms, one for doms/tops, and one where all meet and mingle.

Bottoms up! The event

When we started out as new subs, bright-eyed and bushy-tailed, we dove headfirst into a sub frenzied whirlwind that took us to places we would have never imagined. We had wild and wondeful times (and still do), but occasionally, we ended up in situations that could have been straight-up dangerous. Thankfully, in parts to having each other, it turned out alright (in the end…) Still, had we only known then what we know now…

It’s with this incentive that we’re putting this event together; so that you don’t have to make the same mistakes we did. If you’re new to the scene and curious to explore your submissive side (or, you’ve been exploring for a while, but feel like you’re missing some basics) this is for you!

The evening will be loaded with all the knowledge and nuggets of wisdom we’ve gathered over the years. We’ll cover topics from, but not limited to:

• How to vet a Dom, green and red flags, etc.
• What types of Doms are there, and what kind of sub are you?
• Communicating needs & desires effectively + figuring out what these are.
• Pre-negotiation, limits, boundaries & safe words.
• How to hold boundaries during play & when in subspace.
• What if something goes wrong? Room for errors and how to give feedback.
• Pre-care, self-care, after-care & after-after-care.

— And much, much more! 

The vibe of the evening will be casual, filled with storytelling, open conversation, Q&A, and, most likely, a lot of laughter too. At the end of the night, you’ll go home with a bonus care package PDF filled with notes from the workshop + tips, articles & other useful material.

We look forward to spending time with you!

ABOUT SHIRIN & ENA

Now a versatile switch and eager rigger, Shirin started her journey as a submissive babygirl with a big thing for humiliation. While these sides still come out to play, they are now backed by years of experience and solid knowledge of herself and her boundaries. In her vanilla life Shirin is a podcast host, editor and professional musician.

Ena has gone from a hard necked power sub with a penchant for fear play and attraction to danger (and macho Doms with unhealthy egos), to a full-blown sensualist and rope (s)witch. Professionally, she’s a creative director, author, and a sexuality & kink writer/educator.

To register & for more info, email to hello[at]enadahl[dot]com